My wife recently had our first child – why wouldn’t she leave her hobbies?

Most people expect their lives to change after they have children.

Maybe fewer weekends aways, girls/boys nights, or leisure for leisure?

Less, less… but not absolutely none.

And yet, according to one father, whose Rant is now going viral online, this is his wife’s reception – a young mother.

“Am I really checking or I’m right?”

The father shared that since he had their one -year -old daughter, his partner continues to go on weekends away and spontaneous exits with friends.

He complains that the 34-year-old woman enjoys a variety of hobbies, mostly horseback riding and dog breeding. This means she will go away for multi-night trips or travel overseas for regularly. He notes that her time ‘far’ is not a source of income, and she also calls her activities “hobby”.

When they both discussed for the first time about having a child, they admitted that their lives would have to change.

“I mentioned that she would have to make big changes. She assured me she was on board with this and it would not be a problem.

Soon for now, he says his wife was on a daily journey to take pictures of dogs, for which he was “€ œguiltedâ in” allowing him to continue.

The father, who also has two children from a previous marriage aged 12 and 10, says she is sometimes removed on weekends or breaks with all three children, which makes it difficult to spend quality time with the older ones.

â € œSo think what I’m looking for am I really checking or I’m right and this is just not acceptable behavior for a family? â € he asks in his post.

“Sometimes I feel like we are just roommates we sleep together and have a child together than a current family.â €

There is always two sides of a story

The divisive post was so widely shared that the woman herself stumbled upon her and recognized her story as her.

So she commented and clarified a few points her partner had left out.

“His wife here, found my husband’s thread after realizing that he was whispered to me to go on a day trip photographing my dogs outside in the village,” she began her response.

“I am a very involved mother for both my daughter and for my steppeds,” she hit again. “When our older children are with us every other week I [almost] Always run them to school in the morning, and I would do nothing for them.

“I don’t want to give up my life just because I have a baby and man, and I won’t go to.â €

Since they were posted a few days ago, people have been divided into their answers.

“You are married. You will not do anything else. This type of mentality will turn to follow you if it is not a problem already,” replied one user.

While another added, did I read only? Your wife is coming out of the line and you, sir, are a therapy or divorce. You choose.

“I think you need to have a bigger conversation, what will not feel accusatory -” You’re leaving me again with kids etc. – But on the contrary, “I’m feeling alone in this relationship now, can we talk about it.

The duo who then kept a look at the comments and now agree that the family may be more involved in her hobbies. They also confirmed that they will not go to divorce and still “Adoreâ and” € –Loveâ € one -other.